When I was young all he had to have was a job. As I got older he needed a job and a car. Then as an adult he had to have the 3 C’s, Career, Car and a Crib. Without those things i wouldn’t give him the time of day. Then there was a time if he had a girlfriend he was off limits but something changed and I didn’t car because I figured if she was taking care of him then he wouldn’t want me. Husbands were always off limits until, I have to admit, I got caught up and he charmed the pants off me. I was in need of a few things, emotionally and physically and he was too and he made me feel bad for him like his wife just wasn’t doing the things he needed and I picked up the pieces. WRONG!!! I won’t fall for that one again. He was lying!!! So I will not mess with a married man again I am proud and happy to say. I fell but I got back up in my lack of judgment. I will not date a man on drugs! I have more but as I’ve posed the question….What makes a man/woman off limits to you?